9/26/09

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9/20/09

To know that you know


To know that you know…

In thinking about my life, one of the greatest things to happen to me is my salvation. It is easy for me to see this now! My life has truly been an adventure! In reflecting on my relationship with our creator, it is so easy for me to love Him with all my heart! I really do love Him, these are not words that I just say it is a life that I live. God has blessed me in so many ways. In the world and culture in which we live, it amazes me at the things that I hear coming out of Christians mouths! Sometimes we let circumstances dictate our current way of thinking. We tend to think of the here and now! When things are going bad in our lives it is so easy for us to throw in the spiritual towel and depend start depending on self! It happens all the time! We talk in spiritual speak about our faith, but when our faith is tested, to many times we deal only with what we can control. Can I tell you today that no matter what happens in the world, God is still God! He is large and in charge! He will always be God, He is not capable of being anything else! Nothing surprises Him! Malachi 3:6 says “For I, the Lord do not Change…”. He never changes! He is always God! In the changing world and culture we can take comfort knowing that the creator of the universe will not change! God is consistent and He always has your best interest at heart. He is God.
So today, just know that you know! Take courage and believe that God is exactly who He says He is! Always remember that He is capable of getting you through the tough times that you somehow find your way into I was reminded tonight by my niece, that if we delight our selves in the Lord, He will give us the desires of our heart. Are you able to see that God has a plan? And if you have an element of faith in your life, and believe that God truly is in control, you will know that He is a God that provides for us spiritually and physically. God’s plan for your life is all encompassing! He see’s the big picture and knows all of the trials you are dealing with. I personally believe that for every trial there is a lesson for me to learn. First, I am constantly reminded to depend on God. I must stay clean and close! I have to stay connected to the source. Second, I have to look for His plan for my life! Discernment is imperative here. God is never going to give you more of a load than you can bear. God is not going to ask you to do anything that contradicts His word! He is not going to call you to do anything that will bring questions to your testimony! Our God, truly is an awesome God! I cannot explain why God does all of the things He does, but I know that the God who was capability of creating the heavens and the earth, the God who before the foundations of the world was laid was thinking about me...I know that God is able to do exceedingly abundantly more than I could ever hope for or imagine! So what can you know today? You can know that God created you for a purpose...God wants you to connect to and wait on Him. He has a plan! I love you all! <><

9/19/09

What a friend we have in Jesus


“Sticks and Stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”

As a child I remember saying this little rhyme as other children would say things about me or my friends! As badly as I wanted it to be true, it never worked; words do hurt. I believe that words are one of the most powerful forces on the planet. The words that we say can hurt people. As Christians we need to think before we speak. We need to consider others. Jesus left us two commandments, to love God with all our hearts, and to love our neighbors as ourselves. In the church today we see and witness all kinds of strife and discord. As a believer, I have personally witnessed some of the hurtful things that people sometimes say in the body. This should never happen. God’s word is very clear on how we are to treat one another. He wants us to “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.” We are to be like Jesus, because this is what God wants us to be like. Jesus in His earthly ministry never used words to hurt anyone. We should not use words to heart the people that we come into contact with. Proverbs 16:27 says “A worthless man digs up evil, while his words are as a scorching fire.” We need to think about the words that we say to others, they do hurt; they do have an impact on others. So today think about the words that you use when you come into contact with people that you may not see eye to eye with. Think about how Jesus would deal with these individuals. After you have thought about how Jesus would react, imitate Him. <><

9/13/09

a matter of perspective


Many times in my ministry I have heard parents make statements like “we did not raise our children to be that way”. I have often agreed with mom and dad as they sat in my office dealing with major issues or a crisis with their child all the while trying to understand where they went wrong. In thinking about this generation of students and often knowing the unreal expectations that parents sometimes put on teens it is no wonder and very understandable that youth may rebel against the things of God! So many times with parents, they turn to God and the Church when they cannot deal with the problems any longer! When conventional worldly reasoning doesn’t work parents throw up their hands and and cry “mercy” to God. In any cases the problems could have been avoided if the parents truly raised their kids in the ways of the Lord. Most of the problems I deal with are because of a relaxed attitude that families have towards the things of God. Parents fail or refuse to see the warning signs that lead to problems until sometimes it is to late! Problems like disrespect! Disrespect tolerated leads to other problems. Our (believing) children are supposed to honor us! This is a concept that teens have a grasp on. They (for the most part) understand the application of authority and order in their lives and are capable of being respectful. Disrespect does not equal honor. If a child cannot honor his/her earthy parents, there is no way they can honor their heavenly father. So early on, when you experience problems you have to deal with them immediately! Parents should help their children develop a biblical worldview which includes respect for the authority in their lives. Parents also early on need to foster and help their children understand the importance of a strong relationship with Jesus and the things of God. For parents this means things like sports and activities have to take the backseat to the things of God! Don’t get me wrong, I do not think that there is anything wrong with sports or activities but I believe that things of God must come first! In most cases, students who are heavily involved in ministry tend to have less problems in relationships with mom and dad! Let them see how important the things of God are to you! Think about it, can your children see Christ reflected through the life you are living? Parents have to be...the parent! I love my children, but I also realize the importance of being a model of responsibility in front of them! I have never really been interested in being my child’s friend! I am a lot more interested in being their parent! What a blessing it has been to raise my three beautiful daughters! It boils down to perspective...what is important to you? If the things of God are high on your priority list, they most likely will be for your children and on the flip side if the things of the world are important to you, they most likely will be for you children! Train them up in the way they should go...and you will never regret it! I love you all! <><

9/12/09

A Hostage situation

This past couple of moths have been very telling to me as I have been dealing with several families in crisis. Busyness and Activity are destroying the family in this country! So many times well intentioned parents sit in my office because of conflict with their older teens ready to throw in the towel! Students have learned how to hold their parents hostage. In the last month, I have had several fathers tell me that they were willing to live with the turmoil to keep their children from leaving home when they turn 18. These teens have figured out ways to drive a wedge between mom and dad! Their actions and attitudes have caused parents to cower down to their demands! Boy, how times have changed! I think back on when I was growing up. If I would have made demands on my dad, or if I would have threatened leaving home when I was 18 he would have helped me pack before my birthday! Parents...unite! You must come together! You must not let your child hold you hostage! You together in private must agree on how you are going to deal with every situation. And you must let your child know that you are united in your decision. Can I make some suggestions now? Slow things down! Make God a priority in your family! Let your kids know early on in life that you as parents (even in a divorce situation) are going to be united in your parental decisions. Your children need to know that you under no circumstances will be held hostage by any demands that they may put on you! Train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old...they will not depart from it! I love you all! <><

9/8/09

The Adventure lives on...


As I was walking away from Island of Adventures on my last visit this, I noticed a sign over the walkway. It was more of a statement than a sign. The statement was simply this:

“The Adventure lives on”

I love this statement! I was thinking about how Universal Studios intended for this statement to be a reminder of the great times that you have when you visit their theme park. But I cannot help but think about how true this statement is in the life of a Christian. I believe that salvation is the beginning of a great adventure! In living the Christian life, you can expect all kinds of exciting thrills and experiences. The Apostle Paul writes in Philippians 1:6 “I am sure of this, that He who started a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” I love this verse of scripture because we can see that when God begins a good work He will complete it! Paul was certain of this! I am confident of some things today. I am confident that the awesome work that God started in you will be complete. I am also confident that God has something in mind for all of us as believers! He wants to bless and use us!. He wants believers to experience more than salvation. He has so many blessings for the believer and they are so rich that we are blessed beyond anything we can hope for or imagine. I feel so sorry for those who experience salvation and never go any further. So many new Christians never go beyond this experience. They fail to grow and mature as Christians. When this happens, they do not realize that they are missing out on God’s best for them. Remember, He started a great work in you! The key word is started! Started symbolizes a beginning. The words started, indicates a process that will take place over a period of time. The period of time in this passage of scripture is from the time that the great work begins, until Jesus calls you home or comes back! You have to be part of the process! Don’t miss out on God’s best! Salvation is the beginning…and “The Adventure lives on…”

9/7/09

I just want to praise you...Lord


Do you ever get overwhelmed and feel that you cannot get close enough to God? Maybe it is because of the situations going on around you. We have all been there at some point on our journey! We all have dark nights of the soul, where events and circumstances bog us down and keep us from true fellowship with our Creator! What is a believer to do? First, you must realize that His love truly is unfailing! Wherever you are in your relationship you must realize God wants what is best for you! He never changes, He is always the same…always Holy. Today you may be feeling 10 million miles away from Him (God)! Can I remind you that it is only one step back? We are to rejoice in the Lord always…He truly is near! Lift your hands to your father…and praise Him for who He is! Thank Him for all that He is doing in your life…and if He is not doing anything…ask Him to forgive and restore you to the relationship that you desire and once had! Then you need to realize that when it is all said and done, the gospel is all we really have! Praise Him today! I love you all!

9/5/09

Go God...Go Team


Well, today an annual ritual begins as people wput on their favorite teams colors and either make the trek to the ball game or to a television set and watch teams of young men in extremely great shape do battle for 60 minutes. Many have been anticipating this day since the middle of last January. We love College football! It helps build relationships as I have seen complete strangers walking through the grocery store and by simply seeing someone wearing your teams colors, you strike up a conversation! We know the stats, the schedules and the scores. We cherish and idolize former greats! We hold coaches in high esteem and the players are loved like family! We spend large chunks of time tweeting, facebooking and emailing our anticipation and our picks for the game of the week! I love college football, but this past week I have been thinking about how much time we spend in preparation for the season. What would happen if we spent this amount of time sharing the gospel! I am not trying to be a kill joy, I love football and will watch games and know that I will have fun and enjoy. I just wish there was some way that we could take the fervor we have for college football and transfer it to our love for the gospel! Some evangelical organizations tell us that 97-98% of evangelicals never share the faith in the Lord Jesus. The gospel is very well known in evangelical circles, but not being shared with a world that desperately needs to hear about its life changing power! What would happen if we anticipated an evangelical season like football season? Think about it! Thousands would go to stadiums excited and looking forward to what God is going to do! Would it not be awesome to see people spend time memorizing scripture like many do stats and schedules. It would be so cool for people to dress up in God’s colors (what ever they are) and strike up conversation with complete strangers in grocery stores! Think about what would happen if we spent the time preparing our hearts and lives for the gospel the way that we do for college football! I was thinking instead of the Bowl Championship Series we could have A Big Caring Service where thousands would spend money buying tickets at the last minute to fly to the game and millions more would gather around their televisions and see a man of God teach and preach the word of God...would that not be cool...? Again I want to emphasize, I am not anti football, I will be pulling for my favorite team but I am going to make a commitment to spend more time with the gospel than I do with college football! I love you all...Go God...Go team!